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Everyone's telling you:"At least they're not suffering." "I know exactly how you're feeling." "Everything happens for a reason." |
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When someone you love is dying or has died, there is no shortage of bullshit people will say to you. But then there's those people who aren’t saying anything at all, who are instead just avoiding you because it’s too awkward and uncomfortable. For them. You keep trying to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but mostly you’re ending up feeling pissed off. You’ve never needed people more, and yet, here you are, feeling isolated and all alone. |
Grief is such a lonely place to be.And a confusing and exhausting place to be. You’re both numb and on fire. Everything is at a standstill, except nothing actually stops moving. Life keeps happening all around you, but you no longer know your place in any of it. You’re trying to make sense of it all. But you’re failing at it. You’re trying to cope. But you’re pretty sure you’re sucking at it. You don’t know who you are now or what your life is moving forward. And you have no idea how to figure that out. |
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You do know you need an actual connection, where you don’t feel so lost and alone, where you can share how you actually feel, and not have to do some shitty performative small talk about it all, over and over again.
You’re in the right place. I’d love to help. |
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